I cannot give you the formula for success, but a timeless advice from those who’ve walked this earth before us (and some who are still here) goes thus: “Action is a fundamental key to success”
The best years of your life begin once you agree that your problems are yours to deal with and ultimately solve, when you decide against blaming your mother for birthing you wrongly, or pointing an accusing finger at your dad for not saving up an inheritance-worthy chunk of cash for you or questioning God for sending you to a particular household, community or country.
It begins when you realize that you control your own destiny, for only then will you naturally stop blaming your mishap on the ecology or the government or any other vain thing for that matter.
You’ve got to get up every morning with determination if you’re going to bed satisfied.
That being said, may I also share the perfect recipe for failure please? It’s really simple. Try to please everyone without having a voice of your own.