A lot of marriages and relationships have been ruined at the instance of simple mistakes, yet grave for its potentialities of cutting down the bridge of communication that had long existed between the partners.
One of such mistakes people people make is discussing their spouse with relatives. If it gets to that point where you have to complain about your husband, let it be to his own relatives. If you have to complain about our wife, let it be to her own relatives. These relatives must be those with genuine love for your spouse.
You are going to make up with your spouse and both forgive each other, but your own relative will find it difficult forgetting those negative things you said about him or her.
Protect your spouse from your family. Allowing your family members to disrespect your spouse means allowing them to disrespect you as an individual.